In Islam, a wife’s obedience to her husband takes precedence over her parents and siblings. The Quran and Hadith emphasize the husband’s rights, stating that fulfilling them leads to Paradise while neglecting them may lead to Hell. Scholars agree that if there is a conflict between obeying one’s husband and parents, the husband’s rights take priority, except with his permission. However, a husband must exercise this authority with fairness and compassion.

With regard to inserting the finger into the anus, this should not be done, for several reasons. With regard to simply touching the anal sphincter, there is nothing wrong with that, but it is better to avoid doing that because that may lead to something else.