Gifting your wife is highly encouraged in Islam, but this should not be restricted to wedding anniversaries, as this may lead to treating the day like an unofficial `Eid. Love does not need to be renewed every year; rather it should be renewed all the time.

Self-Masturbation is prohibited in Islam. However, there is no sin if the husband is masturbated by his wife’s hand, because it is permissible for him to enjoy her; the same applies if he ejaculates outside the vagina.