This is permissible if it is done in order to advice the person and rebuke him so that he will be deterred from committing sin. It should be done in a nice and polite manner so that the advice will be accepted. But if it is done in a mean-spirited way, intending to shame him, insult him and expose him to people, etc., then this is not permitted.
Advising a person to his face
Question: 10218
What is the ruling on speaking directly to a person and telling him of his faults whilst he is listening? Is this permissible?
Answer
Praise be to Allah, and blessings and peace be upon the Messenger of Allah:
Source:
From Fatawaa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah, 12/342
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