Praise be to Allah.
Undoubtedly the rights of the father over the child are great. But so long as your wife does not want to live in his house, then you cannot force her to do so. You can convince your father of that, and let your wife live in a separate house, whilst maintaining contact with your father, honouring him, pleasing him and treating him kindly as much as you can.
Al-Muntaqa min Fataawa ash-Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan (3/405)