Praise be to Allaah.
Waswaas is a
kind a sickness, may Allaah keep us and you safe from it. It is caused by
the shaytaan gaining control over a person and filling him with anxiety,
grief, distress and worry.
Waswaas is
of various kinds, such as waswasah about divorce, where the person affected
thinks that he has divorced his wife, or thinks to himself about divorce and
he is uncertain as to whether he has uttered the words of divorce or not,
and he remains confused, although he no intention or desire to divorce his
wife.
Some of them
think that if they say a certain word to their wives or they do not respond
to them, that divorce has taken place thereby, and that this is a metaphor
for divorce. All of that is an illusion that has no reality. Perhaps he
feels that the words came out of his mouth and he heard them. Even if we
assume that such a person did speak audible words, then as long as he is
affected by waswaas and did not really intend a divorce, then his divorce
does not count. This is the meaning of the words of Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen
(may Allaah have mercy on him) quoted in the question.
Some people
experience waswaas with regard to purification; every time they do wudoo’,
they repeat it, thinking that they did not wash one part of the body, or
that their wudoo’ is lacking, or that if they do not repeat wudoo’ they will
remain uncertain for the rest of the day. Thus he is overwhelmed with a
strong urge to repeat his wudoo’, and he will not feel at ease until he does
so. We have mentioned in a number of answers that the way to treat waswaas
is to strengthen one’s faith by doing righteous deeds and reciting
beneficial dhikrs, and also not paying attention to the waswaas or
responding to it.
See
questions no. 62839 and
39684.
And Allaah
knows best.