Praise be to Allaah.
There are many points of etiquette to be followed by the
traveller, which the scholars have compiled. One of those who compiled these
rulings well was al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him), in his book
al-Majmoo’ (4/264-287), where he mentions sixty-two points of etiquette.
We will mention some of them in brief, and anyone who wants to know more may
consult the writings of al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him).
He said:
Chapter on the etiquette of travelling:
This is an important topic, for which there is a great need.
Our aim here is to refer to this etiquette in brief.
1 – When a person wants to travel, it is mustahabb for him to
consult those whose religious commitment, experience and knowledge he trusts
about travelling at that time. The one who is consulted must be sincere in
offering advice and avoid being influenced by whims and desires. Allaah says
(interpretation of the meaning):
“and consult them in the affairs”
[Aal ‘Imraan 3:159]
The saheeh ahaadeeth
indicate that the people used to consult the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) with regard to their affairs.
2 – Once he has decided to travel, the Sunnah is to seek
Allaah’s guidance by praying istikhaarah. So he should pray two rak’ahs of
non-obligatory prayer, then recite the du’aa’ of istikhaarah.
3 – If he has decided to travel for Hajj or jihad or any
other purpose, he should start by repenting from all sins and makrooh
actions, and he should put right any wrongs he has done towards people and
pay off whatever he can of the debts he owes them; he should also return
anything that has been entrusted to him and seek forgiveness from anyone
with whom he has any dealings or friendship. He should write his will and
have it witnessed, and he should appoint someone to pay off the debts that
he was not able to pay. He should also leave with his family and those on
whom he is obliged to spend enough funds to cover their needs until he
returns.
4 – He should seek to please his parents and those whom he is
obliged to honour and obey.
5 – If he is travelling for Hajj or jihad or any other
purpose, he should strive to ensure that his funds are halaal and free from
any suspicion. If he goes against this and goes for Hajj or jihad with
wealth that has been seized by force, he is a sinner and although his Hajj
or jihad may be outwardly valid, it will not be a proper Hajj (Hajj
mabroor).
6 – It is mustahabb for the one who is travelling to Hajj or
for any other purpose for which provision is carried to take a great deal of
provision and money with him, so that he can share them with those who are
in need. His provisions should be good (i.e., halaal), because Allaah says
(interpretation of the meaning):
“O you who believe! Spend of the good things which you
have (legally) earned, and of that which We have produced from the earth for
you, and do not aim at that which is bad to spend from it”
[al-Baqarah 2:267]
He should give willingly
so that it will be more likely to be accepted.
7 – If he wants to travel for Hajj or jihad, he should learn
about how they are to be done, for no act of worship is valid if done by one
who does not know it properly. It is mustahabb for the one who wants to do
Hajj to take with him a clear book about the rituals which also speaks about
their aims, and he should read it constantly and often throughout his
journey, so that it will become fixed in his mind. Hence there is the fear
that for some of the common folk, their Hajj will not be valid because they
fail to fulfil one of the conditions and so on. And some of them may imitate
some of the common folk of Makkah, thinking that they know the rituals
properly and thus being deceived by them. That is a serious mistake.
Similarly in the case of one who is going out for jihad etc, it is
recommended for him to take a book which speaks of what he needs to know,
and the warrior should learn what he needs to know about fighting and the
du’aa’s to be said at that time, and the prohibitions on treachery, killing
women and children, and so on. The one who is travelling for the purpose of
trade should learn what he needs to know about buying and selling, which
transactions are valid and which are invalid, what is halaal and what is
haraam, and so on.
8 – It is mustahabb for him to seek a companion who desires
good and hates evil, so that if he forgets, he can remind him, if he
remembers, he can help him, and if he happens to be a man of knowledge, he
should stick with him, because he will help him to avoid bad attitudes such
as boredom with travel and he can help him to maintain a noble attitude and
encourage him to do so.
He should also be keen to please his companion throughout the
journey. Each of them should put up with the other and view his companion
with respect, and be patient with whatever he may do at some times.
9 – It is mustahabb for him to bid farewell to his family,
neighbours, friends and all his loved ones. He should bid them farewell and
he should say to each of them: “I place your religion, your faithfulness and
the ends of your deeds in the trust of Allaah.” The one who is staying
behind should say to the traveller: “May Allaah bless you with taqwa and
forgive you your sins and make goodness easy for you wherever you are.”
10 – It is Sunnah to say the following du’aa’ when leaving
the house: Bismillaah, tawakkaltu ‘ala Allaah, wa laa hawla wa laa
quwwata illa Billaah. Allaahumma inni a’oodhu bika min an adilla aw udalla
aw azilla aw uzalla aw azlima aw uzlama aw ajhala aw yujhal ‘alayya (In
the name of Allaah, I put my trust in Allaah and there is no power and no
strength except with Allaah. O Allaah, I seek refuge with You lest I should
stray or be led astray, or slip or be tripped, or do wrong or be wronged, or
behave foolishly or be treated foolishly).”
11 – The Sunnah when leaving one's house and wanting to get
up on one's mount is to say Bismillah. Then when he has mounted it he
should say: “Al-hamdu Lillaah illadhi sakhkhara lana hadha wa ma kunna
lahu muqrineen wa inna ila rabbina la munqaliboon (In the name of
Allaah… All praise be to Allaah Who has placed this (transport) at our
service and we ourselves would not have been capable of that, and to our
Lord is our final destiny.” Then he should say Al-hamdu Lillaah
(praise be to Allaah) three times and Allaahu akbar (Allaah is most
Great) three times, then, “Subhaanaka inni zalamtu nafsi faghfir li
innahu la yaghfir ul-dhunooba illa anta (Glory be to You, verily I have
wronged myself, so forgive me, for surely no one can forgive sins except
You).”
And: “Allaahumma inna nas’aluka fi safarina haadha
al-birra wa’l-taqwa wa min al-‘aml ma tarda, Allaahumma hawwin ‘alayna
safarana haadha watwi ‘anna bu’dahu. Allaahumma anta al-saahib fi’l-safar
wa’l-khaleefah fi’l-ahl. Allaahumma inni a’oodhu bika min wa’tha’ al-safar
wa ka’aabat al-manzar wa su’ al-munqalib fi’l-maali wa’l-ahl (O Allaah,
we ask You for righteousness and piety in this journey of ours, and we ask
You for deeds which please You. O Allaah, facilitate our journey and let us
cover its distance quickly. O Allaah, You are the Companion on the journey
and the Successor (the One Who guards them in a person’s absence) over the
family. O Allaah, I seek refuge with You from the difficulties of travel,
from having a change of heart and from being in a bad predicament, and I
seek refuge with You from an ill-fated outcome with regard to wealth and
family).” When returning the same words are recited with the following
addition: “Aayiboona taa’iboona ‘aabidoona li rabbina haamidoon
(Returning, repenting, worshipping and praising our Lord).”
12 – It is mustahabb to travel with a group of people,
because of the hadeeth of ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said:
The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)
said: “If the people knew what I know about being alone, no one would ever
travel alone at night.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari.
13 – It is mustahabb for the group to appoint the best and
wisest of their number as their leader, and to obey him, because of the
hadeeth of Abu Sa’eed and Abu Hurayrah who said: The Messenger of Allaah
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “When three people
set out on a journey, let them appoint one of their number as their leader.”
A hasan hadeeth narrated by Abu Dawood with a hasan isnaad.
14 – It is mustahabb to set out at the end of the night,
because of the hadeeth of Anas who said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace
and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “You should travel at the end of
the night (or throughout the night) because it is easier to cover a greater
distance at night.” This was narrated by Abu Dawood with a hasan hadeeth. It
was also narrated by al-Haakim who said: it is saheeh according to the
conditions of al-Bukhaari and Muslim.
15 – He should adopt a kind and good attitude, and avoid
arguing or pushing and shoving people on the road. He should guard his
tongue against insults, backbiting, cursing his mount or any other kind of
foul speech.
16 – It is mustahabb for the traveller to say takbeer when
going up a rise in the land and to say tasbeeh when going down into valleys
and the like.
17 – If he sees a village or town that he wants to enter, it
is mustahabb for him to say: “Allaahumma as’aluka khayraha wa khayra
ahliha wa khayra ma fiha wa ‘a’oodhu bika min sharriha wa sharri ahliha wa
sharri ma fiha (O Allaah, I ask You for its goodness, the goodness of
its people and the goodness of what is in it, and I seek refuge with You
from its evil, the evil of its people and the evil of what is in it).”
18 – It is mustahabb for him to make du’aa’ most of the time
when travelling, because his du’aa’ will be answered.
He should try to remain in a state of purity and to pray on
time. Allaah has made it easy by allowing tayammum and joining and
shortening of prayers.
20 – The Sunnah when stopping in a place is to say what was
narrated by Khawlah bint Hakeem, who said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “Whoever makes a stop
then says: ‘A’oodhu bi kalimaat Allaah il-taammati min sharri ma khalaq
(I seek refuge in the perfect words of Allaah from the evil of that which He
has created),’ nothing will harm him until he moves on from that place.”
Narrated by Muslim.
21 – It is mustahabb for a travelling group to camp close to
one another and not to be scattered or separated needlessly, because of the
hadeeth of Abu Tha’labah al-Khushani (may Allaah be pleased with him) who
said: When the people stopped in a place, they would scatter in the mountain
passes and valleys. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) said: “Your scattering in these mountain passes and
valleys is something from the Shaytaan.” After that, they never stopped in
any place without being close together. Narrated by Abu Dawood with a hasan
isnaad.
22 – The Sunnah for the traveller is that when he has done
what he set out to do, he should hasten to return to his family, because of
the hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah, according to which the Messenger of Allaah
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Travel is a kind of
torment, which keeps one of you from his food and drink. When one of you has
finished what he set out to do, let him hasten back to his family.” Narrated
by al-Bukhaari and Muslim.
23 – The Sunnah is to say when returning from a journey that
which is narrated in the hadeeth of Ibn ‘Umar, according to which the
Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), when
he came back from a campaign or from Hajj and ‘Umrah, he would say takbeer
on every high ground three times, then he would say, ‘Laa ilaaha
ill-Allaah wahdahu laa shareeka lah, lahu’l-mulk wa lahu’l-hamd wa huwa ‘ala
kulli shay’in qadeer. Aayiboona taa’iboona ‘aabidoona, saajidoona li rabbina
haamidoon. Sadaqa Allaahu wa’dah wa nasara ‘abdah wa hazama al-ahzaaba
wahdah
(There is no god but
Allaah alone, with no partner or associate. His is the Dominion, to Him be
all praise, and He is Able to do all things. Returning, repenting,
worshipping, prostrating to our Lord and praising Him. Allaah fulfilled His
promise, granted victory to His slave and defeated the confederates Alone).
Narrated by al-Bukhaari and Muslim.
It was narrated that Anas said: We came back with the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and when we reached the
outskirts of Madeenah he said: “Aayiboona taa’iboona ‘aabidoona li
rabbina haamidoon (Returning, repenting, worshipping and praising our
Lord).” And he kept saying that until we came to Madeenah. Narrated by
Muslim.
24 – The Sunnah when returning home is to start by going to
the mosque that is nearest one's home and praying two rak’ahs with the
intention of offering salaat al-qudoom (the prayer of arrival), because of
the hadeeth of Ka’b ibn Maalik, according to which the Prophet (peace
and blessings of Allaah be upon him), when he came back from a journey,
would start by going to the mosque where he would pray two rak’ahs and then
sit down. Narrated by al-Bukhaari and Muslim.
25 – It is mustahabb to make food for the returning
traveller, whether it is made by the traveller himself or by someone else
for him, as indicated by the hadeeth of Jaabir (may Allaah be pleased with
him), according to which the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings
of Allaah be upon him), when he came back to Madeenah from a journey, would
slaughter a camel or a cow. Narrated by al-Bukhaari.
26 – It is haraam for a woman to travel without a mahram
unnecessarily, whether that is a long or a short distance, because of the
hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said: The
Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
“It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allaah and the Last Day
to travel for the distance of one day and one night except with a mahram.”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari and Muslim.
End quote from al-Nawawi.
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
The etiquette of travelling for Hajj is divided into two
categories: obligatory and mustahabb. The obligatory etiquette means that
the traveller should fulfil all the obligations and pillars (essential
parts) of Hajj, and avoid the things that are forbidden in ihraam in
particular, and the things that are forbidden in general, whether they are
forbidden in ihraam or when not in ihraam, because Allaah says
(interpretation of the meaning):
“The Hajj (pilgrimage) is (in) the well-known (lunar year)
months (i.e. the 10th month, the 11th month and the first ten days of the
12th month of the Islamic calendar, i.e. two months and ten days). So
whosoever intends to perform Hajj therein (by assuming
Ihraam), then he should not have sexual relations (with his wife), nor
commit sin, nor dispute unjustly during the Hajj”
[al-Baqarah 2:197]
The mustahabb etiquette
when travelling for Hajj is for a person to do all the things that he should
do, such as being generous to people, serving his brothers, putting up with
their annoyance, not retaliating to mistreatment, and being kind to them,
whether that is after he puts on the ihraam or before, because this
etiquette is sublime and good, and is required of every believer at all
times and in all places. There are also other points of etiquette that has
to do with the act of worship, such as doing Hajj in the most perfect manner
and striving to do it with the proper etiquette in both word and deed. End
quote.
Fataawa Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, 21/16.