Praise be to Allaah.
With regard to offering
alcohol and pork to the residents of the home for the elderly, this is
undoubtedly haraam, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him) cursed ten types of people with regard to alcohol, including the
one who carries it and the one who pours it. It was narrated that Anas ibn
Maalik (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allaah
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed ten types of people with
regard to wine: the one who presses (the grapes), the one for whom it is
pressed, the one who drinks it, the one who carries it, the one to whom it
is carried, the one who pours it, the one who sells it and consumes its
price, the one who buys it and the one for whom it is bought.” (Narrated by
al-Tirmidhi, 1295; Abu Dawood, 3674). So it is not permissible to carry it
or serve it and to be paid for that. The Prophet (peace and blessings
of Allaah be upon him) said: “When Allaah forbids people to eat something,
He also forbids its price to them [i.e., they are not allowed to sell it].”
(Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani – may Allaah have mercy on him) in
Saheeh Abi Dawood, no. 2978).
It is also well known that
alcohol and pork are forbidden in the Qur’aan.
There remain two further
issues of concern:
The first is that the
Muslim woman who works in this home is not wearing complete shar’i hijaab.
The second is that washing
the elderly people and changing their diapers will lead to seeing and
touching their ‘awrahs. This is permissible in cases of necessity, but I do
not think they will appoint men to take care of men and women to take care
of women; usually they bring all the people together in one place and both
women and men work with both sexes.
So my advice is that a
Muslim woman, in particular, should not work in this place. This work is
also not desirable because it involves dealing with impure things. Accepting
help from the social institution, even though it involves the humiliation of
the Muslim taking aid from the kaafirs, is still easier to bear that this
work which involves going against sharee’ah.
We ask Allaah to cause
Islam and the Muslims to prevail. And Allaah is the Source of help.