Praise be to Allaah.
The Christmas tree is one of the symbols of the Christian
festival and celebration; this is why it is named for Christmas. It is said
that it was first officially used as a symbol in this manner in the
sixteenth century in Germany, in the Cathedral of Strasbourg in 1539 CE.
It is not permissible to imitate the kuffaar in any of their
acts of worship, rituals or symbols, because the Prophet (blessings and
peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of
them.” Narrated by Abu Dawood, 4031; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in
Irwa’ al-Ghaleel, 5/109
So it is not permissible to put up this tree in a Muslim
house even if you do not celebrate Christmas, because putting up this tree
comes under the heading of imitating others that is haraam, or venerating
and showing respect to a religious symbol of the kuffaar.
What the parents must do is protect their children and keep them away from
what is haraam, and protect them from the Fire as Allah, may He be exalted,
says (interpretation of the meaning)”
“O you who believe! Ward off yourselves and your families
against a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones, over which are
(appointed) angels stern (and) severe, who disobey not, (from executing) the
Commands they receive from Allaah, but do that which they are commanded”
[al-Tahreem 66:6]
It was narrated from Ibn ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with
him) that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Each
of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock. The ruler
of the people is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. A man is the
shepherd of his household and is responsible for his flock. A woman is the
shepherd of her husband’s house and children and is responsible for her
flock. The slave is the shepherd of his master’s wealth and is responsible
for it. Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his
flock.”
Al-Bukhaari, 7138; Muslim, 1829.
Al-Bukhaari (7151) and Muslim (142) also narrated that Ma
‘qil ibn Yasaar al-Muzani (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I heard the
Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say: “There is
no person whom Allaah puts in charge of others, and when he dies he is
insincere to his subjects, but Allaah will forbid Paradise to him.”
You should explain to your daughter that it is haraam to
imitate the disbelievers and that it is obligatory to differ from those who
are doomed to Hell and to dislike what they venerate of clothing, symbols or
rituals, so as to develop respect for her own religion and adhere to it,
practising the principle of loyalty and friendship as opposed to disavowal
and enmity (al-wala’ wa’l-bara’) which is one of the cornerstones of Tawheed
and one of the basic principles of faith.
And Allah knows best.