Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
There is no doubt that a woman’s pregnancy and giving birth
is fulfilling an aim of sharee‘ah that is dear to Allah, which is increasing
the progeny of the Muslims who proclaim the Oneness of Allah, the followers
of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). This is the most
important thing on which the woman should focus her intention during her
pregnancy.
It was narrated that Ma‘qil ibn Yasaar said: A man came to
the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: I have
found a woman who is of good lineage and beautiful, but she cannot have
children; should I marry her?
He said: No.
Then he came to him a second time and he told him not to
marry her.
Then he came to him a third time and he said: “Marry the one
who is loving and prolific (could bear many children), for I will be proud
of your large numbers before the nations.”
Narrated by Abu Dawood, 2050; al-Nasaa’i, 3227; classed as
saheeh by al-Albaani.
Because of this aim to which we have referred, if pregnancy
is difficult for the woman and she bears it with patience, there are many
benefits which will come to the mother through it, including the following:
1.
Psychological preparation for the task of raising the child
which is the most important and most complicated of all tasks, in which they
(the parents) raise the child to have a good attitude and become religiously
committed for the sake of Allah, and they hope that Allah will decree reward
for them because of the actions of their righteous son, so that he will
become an ongoing charity for them after they die and thus they may attain a
great deal of reward which no one knows except Allah.
2.
The difficulties encountered by the pregnant woman, including
pain and sickness, and health, psychological and physical problems in many
cases, will all bring great reward that will be recorded for the pregnant
woman, in sha Allah. Allah will reward the Muslim for everything that
befalls him in this world. Even if a thorn pricks him, Allah will expiate
thereby some of his sins, and the pains of labour and pregnancy are far
greater than that.
3.
Even if we assume that this woman dies in childbirth, she
will die as a martyr. This is indicative of the virtue of her condition. The
Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The woman who dies
in pregnancy or childbirth is a martyr.” Narrated by Abu Dawood, 3111;
classed as saheeh by al-Nawawi in Sharh Muslim, 13/62. And he said:
the one who dies in childbirth, i.e., she dies with something (the child)
inside, not separated from her.
Secondly:
As for the acts of worship that the pregnant woman can do,
they are all the acts of worship that the Muslim does by day and by night,
such as praying, fasting (so long as there is no fear of harm), giving
charity, reading Qur’aan, regularly reciting the adhkaar that are prescribed
in sharee‘ah, treating people kindly, visiting relatives, taking stock of
oneself, and striving to attain the best attitudes, actions and words.
Perhaps one of the things that the woman should focus on
during this period is learning about sound methods of raising children,
reading books on this topic or listening to useful lectures by scholars on
it, whether that has to do with moral upbringing, health, psychology,
pedagogy, and so on, in preparation for the great mission with which Allah
has entrusted the parents, which is the trust of raising and caring for the
child, so that the parents may embark upon it with knowledge and insight and
achieve the best results, and attain the pleasure of Allah in this world and
in the Hereafter.
With regard to specific rituals or adhkaar specifically for
the woman during pregnancy, we did not know of any such thing in Islam.
Finally we should point out that there are some hadeeths
which indicate that the wife’s pregnancy will bring a reward like that of
one who fasts and prays at night for the sake of Allah, and that there are
many other rewards for giving birth, breastfeeding and weaning the child,
but they are all false and fabricated hadeeths, so it is not permissible to
narrate them or speak of them except by way of warning people about them. We
have already mentioned some of them on our website in the answer to question
no. 121557
And Allah knows best.